Good News!

Did I tell you that I got engaged last month? :-)

Everything happened in a jiffy. He is my colleague. We both got to interact with each other since last June/July. After a few days, he has raised the thought of both of us getting married. Didn't really expect this from him/someone and was all confused/shocked. Same time, lot of personal issues were happening at my family/relatives side w.r.t my wedding (posted few stuff here). I too thought like it would be good getting someone who likes me for what I am and understands me and my family ppl/dependancy. So, we thought of proceeding if ppl at home are ok with this. Things went well and we had a small function at my home last month inviting our close friends at work and apartment ppl.

Ours is a different story. Cant say its a usual love marriage or arranged marriage. I wonder even now :-) Spent only a few days as friends, became close friends in a short period, he has raised this thought, lot of confusions in me, wanted to let my family know abt this (Ahhh evloo kashtapatten idha solrathuku :(), if ppl at both home are ok then I wanted to develop all thoughts abt him. Dont know what to call it. Ah, all human rules and regulations :-) I always thought I would be marrying someone who is selected by my mom or relatives. Never knew I would end up with this person :p This is a sudden twist in my normal life story :-) not sure if i am conveying it properly.

Anyways, he is very sweet. Always had lot of confidence that he would marry me and live with me :-):-) will write more later :-)

He got transferred to our parent company in US and he left Hyderabad 15 days back. wedding will be early next year! me started my ground work for getting a job there.

Missing him a lot, managing work, ppl at my home, in-laws (who too miss their son). Experiencing all sort of emotions, extremely happy sometimes, sad & insecured sometimes--good and bad, all mixed up. enna solrathu. hhmm.

Thought of writing abt this once the wedding date is fixed but no patience :-) Whenever I want to write abt him or his ppl or abt ourselves I should have some reference ryt. I am becoming restless if I want to say something here but when i think that the ppl who read it dont understand what I write, I stop myself posting it. irukara prachanaila why avloo kashtam? :-) I have only this place where i can write whatever i want to. Already I am not that good in writing--third person elaam poattu ezhutharathu is difficult for me :p So, thought of posting this news today.

athaan story :-)

Note: I wrote abt "my" sweet person only in this post :-) (8th point thavira). His mother tongue is Telugu and he does not understand Tamizh :( Ahh ippadi oru Tamizh patrulla oru ponuku epdi elaam vaazhkai amaithu paarungha :-):D

byee,
J.