I was in an extremely *bad* mood since this weekend...Ah, I hate to say this...but cant help, i have to write the facts here. I was getting hurt and hurting A and he too added his part uff :(..and today morning he called me, I was soo happy to see his name flashing on my mobile and took the call but didnt talk to him properly. Adhukum I was feeling soo bad, didnt know whom to blame..Grr.
I came office very late thinking that A would have slept by then. paatha, he was online..OMG! Immediately, came down from my heights of bad feeling and was about to plead him to talk to me nicely.
As always, after I started venting out how bad I was feeling, there was no response from him. I told him all these expecting that he would console me and konjam aaruthalaa pesuvaanghanu. paatha, shock! He typed this:
"I think you need someone like Rajnikanth in Chandramukhi ra...there are some deep beliefs and assumptions in you which are making you down every now and then. books or me or anyone can't help handle these"
adapaavi...enaku azharatha, sirikarthaanu therla..but smiled at myself for becoming an hopeless character..hhmmm
but thats completely true!! I am badly going down very frequently these days...frequency eppadi na, in seconds, minutes'la kooda iruku :( I pity A! ennoda pada mudiyalai :-)
J
Wednesday, June 21, 2006
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Hey J,
LOL at A's comment...
Kannai urutti urutti Jo polae, Aai bayamuruthireengala?!?!:0)
When you are feeling bad, just look around you.You will definetly realise how blessed you are.
..bring everything in to a routine..like
sleeping 10-6
working 9-6
watching tv & spending time with family& friends 6-10
..i feel sleeping late and waking up late screws up the whole day...
Sorry that you were in a *bad* mood but, if you make a conscious effort to not let others or an outside event influence you in any negative way, then your days would be very cherishable.
I listen to a song by Kannadasan from an old thamizh movie "sumaithangi" which goes like "mayakkama kalakkama" whenever I feel let down.
If you have to find yourself a source of inspiration you can easily shy away from any *bad* moods.
I know this may be just free advice, hopefully it helps you.
With regards,
S
Raji - right :-)
Me - well said! Have to try seriously...late'aa officeku varumbothae oru maathri irukum..hhmm ..thanks a lot, Me!
S - soo nice to hear that. Many thanks!!
Ah, I am feeling better now.
u can also take some professional help (like vettayan...) - I'm serious. ur frequent mood swings may cause bad consequences....
Hey J,
How are u? Long time no see!! Yeah ...If sleeping,getting up, eating are done properly right at time everything else will go on smooth. But idhula onnu kasamusa anaa kooda matha elaam sothappala poidum. Like what am doing now!! Innum thoongama OP adichutruken!! :P Bye~~
I don't know whether it will workout for you...enaku indha maathiri irundha oru quarter vitutu thoongiduven :-)
ellorum serious suggestion kuduthutaanga athunaala thaan :-)
pudhu post pls....
Meee, naan on Vacation...oorla (vellore) iruken...ippa net centre vanthu mails check panitu iruken...oraebusyyy ingha..ufff...hope u r doing fine! take care. byee
enanga comment panreenga, post panna maatreenga?
vellore-la veyyil eppadi?
ensoi the kuzhi paniyaaram & ver kadalai chutney....:))
hey...J... hope u r fine :)
i'll be back to blogging sooon....
have fun and take care
:)
Marutham - nice to hear from u :)
Syam - LOL :)
Anon (S?) - Vellore veyil ok types.
Me - hhhmm.
Krish -- helloooooo, happpaa looonnggg time..engha poyiteengha??? mail panungha, Krishna.
hi,
I got to your blog following some weird links and am glad i did...
I can relate sooo much to this post of yours. I don't know much about you, don't know if you really have a reason to feel sad.
But i go thru what you have written oh! so often. Everything is fine in my life, all things gung-ho - an outsider, infact me too attimes, would envy my life - yet i find some stupid thing to feel low about.
Later when i am fine and the sine curve is on the upper side, i feel i had been stupid to feel that way.
I think A is a very understanding person. Dont push him too hard.
Life is too good to be down, i can tell you that because i also go down into dumps really often! Cheer up and spring back!
Sorry if i talked a bit too much :(
Heyy, hai :-) nice to see your comment. thanks for dropping by :-) and ya, all u wrote is true..me too trying to overcome this down feeling..paakalam :-)
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