Thursday, December 20, 2007

Adha epdi sollalaam?

A's colleague oruthar oru party arrange pani, 1 month munaadi invite panaar. adhaan first invite apdinu, naangha polaamnu nenachom. The party was exactly the day when we were supposed to reach US (after our trip to India). we were supposed to reach in the morning, so we thought we could go for this one, scheduled in the evening. engha ketta neram, varappa flight neriya problem aayidichu and we reached 17 hrs late. party light a eduthukitom.

apram casuala oru mail anupinom. That guy replied asking why we didnt turn up. romba akkaraya kaekaarnu nenachu, flight delay nu oru sad icon elaam potu A replied. paatha, avar, "pl let us know if you are not coming to our event. You said you were going to be there so we included you in the food/drink count and seating."

enaku orae kashtama pochu. eppadi avar ippadi sollalam'nu orae polambal. konja naal pattathu, to realize that he was probably just practical and not rude. namma oorla ippadi solla maataangha, so it was difficult for me to handle.

on a lighter note, I imagined how would be the reaction if same thing happened in our country. adhuvum oru nalla panchayathu nadakara gramathula (coimbatore style) ippadi oruthar solli irunthaa badhil epdi vanthu irukum...

#1: "inimae engha vootu visaeshathuku vara mudiyalana, koopdra appavae solidunga. erpaadu geerpaadu panrathuku sowgariyama pogum."
#2: (kovathoda): "eley, nee adutha vaati koopdara varaikum ethuku lae..ippavae solipudren lae...un vootu visaeshathuku naanum varamaaten, en vootu visaeshathuku neeyum varatha lae"

eley varta lae :))

9 comments:

Me said...

i do think he was rude...

J said...

hhmm, Me, appa naan nenachathu correct dhaana :(

Priyamvada_K said...

Maybe he wasn't being rude, but sollamal vitrukkalam. Perhaps next time while inviting, they can mention "if something comes up and you can't make it, let us know. Because we need to give a correct head count to the caterer". Would have been more dignified.

Btw - got this interesting birthday invitation 2 days ago. Was for a neighborhood kid and the celebration was at Chuck E Cheese - a pizza and games place. The mom is friendly with all the neighborhood women in the school bus stop. Invitation said "RSVP if coming. Please note that food will be provided only for the kids".

LOL! Did a double take at sentence #2....enna, can't they order 1 more pizza if there are a couple of adults around? indha madhiri invitation-kku Coimbatore-style replydhaan kudukkaNum :D

Priya.

J said...

Heyyy Priyaaaa what a surprise :-) Thanks a lot.

>>.enna, can't they order 1 more pizza if there are a couple of adults around?

LOL :))

nice to see you writing in Tamizh too. eppavum ungha English post dhaan padichu iruken. romba nalla irukum.

Me said...

may be lots of ppl didn't turn up for his party...btw what kind of party was that??

J said...

hahahha :)) antha kadiyila kaetu irupaaro. enaku thonavae illa :D his wedding anniversary + his kid bday.

Me said...

both fall on the same day??

i think u blogged something about dad & daughter having same birthdays ?

J said...

Me, chacha adhu vera. avar romba nalla friend.

this one - no, not the same day. they combined and gave a single party.

memory power'la ennayae minjuteengha, Me :-) Great!!

Priyamvada_K said...

J,
enakku thamizh-la ezhudha romba pidikkum. Blogs-la ezhudhinadhillai (except for the occasional quote). unga blog-udaya iyarkayAna ezhuththukkaL (natural style of writing) enakkum pidikkum.

Priya.